Daily Dose...

OK... I had my daily dose of entertainment this morning. I swear... I am not sure why there are ppl out there soooo interested in what I have going on... or what I do... BUT, hey... if their lives are that sad and lonely... more power to them!! Please, observe away!! Maybe they will learn something!!

Stacy and I are still going strong with our Couples Counseling!! I have to laugh... because everything that other ppl see as a problem with me... Is exactly what attrated my hubby to me!!! LMBO!!
It may appear to the outside world that I am just a loud mouth dictator... but it came to light yesterday that I am actually the puppet on the string. I do everything that Stacy doesnt want to be bothered with!! He WANTS me to take charge... He WANTS me to draw those invisible lines... SO HE DOESNT HAVE TO!!! Stacy never looks like the bad guy...I do! LOL!!
Oh well... I am ok with it. As long as the end result is something we both have previously agreed on... and he and I are the ones happy... I dont care how we get to that point! I will be the big mouth, "ABRASIVE" one!

For example...
We recently found that a distant "family" member had access to our personal info. He was not happy about it just as much as I was not happy about it. (Since he, too, is living that persons mental issues of delusion and stalking etc). I got put in charge of dealing with the issue. Why? Because Stacy doesnt want to have to deal with the fall out from others. So, I made the phone calls... I had our situation investigated... and I got the end result HE and I BOTH wanted! He came home from work... I gave him the run down... he said..."GOOD, glad that is taken care of!"

Hmmm... which brings to light... there are TWO sides to EVERY story. Just because I dont care to sell everyone mine... doesnt mean the other story ppl are hearing is accurate!! I just dont give enough of a crap about it to waste my energy! ;-)

I am so happy Stacy and I are on the same page and track to setting limits and boundaries with ppl. And hopefully with some encouragement and help... HE will find and USE his own voice, instead of counting on mine!

Oh well...
Today is MY DAY OFF!!!
Granted I still have a ton of things to do around the house... it will be my first day in 10 days that I can just focus on things around the house with NO shop appts. I am still so shocked at how fast things really picked up for me! I am LOVING it!!

So... on my day off I plan on accomplishing-- the mountain of LAUNDRY... making more healthy snacks for the kids... baking some bread (Have to bake and freeze a couple more loaves, especially if the kids want to go to HBG this weekend)... I have some shop paperwork to get in order... some general cleaning... a few phone calls to make regarding Courtney's future...and I hope to find some time to curl up with my current book and just relax for a bit!!
Oh, I guess I have to figure out and make dinner in there somewhere too...lol!

Well... That is all I have time for. I have to get Nathan packed up and on the bus!
I hope everyone enjoys their sunny, fridged day!! ;-)